What I Wore: Subtle Details

My new normal is far more relaxed than a year ago when I worked in an office. I go to the gym, take my daughter to school, run a few errands, and then hunker down at my computer for 6-9 hours. If I do go out, it's usually a fashion or blogger event and the look is less office style and more street style. Many days, my life is in a stretchy pair of jeans and a top, but I make sure to choose pieces that are not only comfortable but have subtle details to elevate them and add style and interest.

I'm not a fan of stiff button-front shirts, I find them hard to wear when you're curvy and soft. But Universal Standard knows how to dress a soft curvy body so I was willing to try their Elbe Shirt. Like everything from Universal Standard, the fabric is phenomenal and completely justifies the cost ($80). It's stretchy but still has crispness; a sheen without looking cheesy. The buttons aren't white but a more subtle horn/tortoise shell color and the placket is covered. This is a popover with a placket that ends halfway down the shirt. This is awesome because you don't have to worry about it getting wonky when tucked in or gaping when you sit down. The collar is the perfect amount of stiffness and height to look great as-is, but can also look great if popped. The cuffs have three buttons: two at the cuff and one higher up to keep it from gaping. All this and it's machine washable. This shirt may have made me a button-front shirt convert!

I've had luck with Talbots denim in the past. They are a nice weight, don't lose their stretch, and hold up beautifully (I have some bootcut that are three years old that each time I go in my denim drawer I grab them mistaking them for a brand new pair). I loved the subtle shadow stripe on the seam of these jeans. It's subtle, but adds style while also elongating the leg. I wore these jeans Friday night to a carnival and they held up in heat and humidity as I climbed in and out of rides, sat on grass, and in general gave them a workout. Threw them in the wash and dryer with other jeans and they came out looking and fitting exactly the same. I wore these jeans for over 12 hours Tuesday, running errands, taking my kid to school, and even sitting for hours in my home office writing this post and answering emails and comments. No sliding down, no stretched out waist or knees, and super comfortable. If unsure, size down. Even with petite these have a very high rise and I find a small cuff is needed to have them truly an ankle length.

This is the same bag I featured Tuesday, this time with the optional shoulder strap. The bag may look small but in there is my full-sized wallet, my Ray-Ban sunglasses case, my phone, and a small pouch with tiny hairbrush, lip balm, eye drops, and lip gloss (I'm wearing Fenty Gloss Bomb and it's amazing).

The necklace is from a collaboration with The Giving Keys and cabi. Each season, cabi creates a piece where a portion of the net proceeds from helps fund their The Heart of cabi Foundation’s efforts around the world. This year it is this necklace. It's two necklaces, connected by a ring in the back. The necklace is also adjustable in length. Wear the two keys together, separately, or give one as a gift to a loved one. One key has the word “Better” on it, the other “Together.” “Better Together” is the theme for cabi's Fall 2018 collection; it's a message of hope and strength that cabi hopes everyone will carry forward into their lives.

At first glance, this outfit is pretty basic. But when you look closer, you see the subtle details that makes it stand out and honestly, makes it more enjoyable to wear!